3 Tips to Avoid Overwhelm on Your Next Home Decorating Project

Decorating Overwhelm

 

I love my clients. My clients are my teachers. My most recent in-home design clients each shared three very similar fears and concerns about their own DIY home decorating. It occurred to me that these are things that I take for granted, but if they were getting stuck on these fears, maybe other home decor enthusiasts are, too!

 

One of my most trusted mentors has a rule of thumb when it comes to wisdom. When you hear the same principle repeated by several brilliant individuals, it’s time to listen up. What they’re saying is the truth. Trust it.

And so it goes in working with clients. They teach me a lot about home decorating and the fears and doubts they have to overcome. Everyone has his or her genius. For me interior design is one of those things that comes easily to me, so I assume it’s easy for everyone. For you maybe it’s making a perfect pie crust or fixing a flat tire—you think, can’t everyone do this?

Recently I realized that many of my design clients have the same concerns like knowing what colors go together, or how to arrange accessories so it doesn’t look cluttered. These concerns and fears of making a mistake often stopped them from completing projects, or spun them into an overwhelm cycle.

With just a few tips, each of these fears is easy dispelled and you can move forward to complete your DIY home decorating projects!

Here are just 3 lessons that my clients have taught me. May they inspire you to take on a project with a little more confidence.

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#1 Shopping can be overwhelming.

When I walk into a home store, I’m a kid in a candy store. When I do personal shopping with my clients, I see that they’re relieved to have me along. Otherwise, they tell me, it can be nearly impossible to make decisions because there are so many choices.

Next time you’re facing a retail meltdown, try these tips:

  • Shop online first to reduce confusion when you get to the store. Most major retailers have websites with search capabilities that let you drill down to the most specific choices. Let’s say you’re looking for a yellow table cloth. Searching for “table cloth” brings up 247 choices; but if you specify the shape, size and color using the site’s refinement function, you really only have 5 choices. Confused minds don’t buy, and reducing your choices from 247 to 5 makes it much easier to see the trees in the forest, so to speak.
  • Ask for help. For many people, the thought of going to a home improvement center is akin to going to the dentist. Oddly, I have zero fear walking into a hardware or home improvement store. I may not know exactly what I’m looking for, but in my experience, the folks that work at these stores have great ideas and a lot of know-how. Explain your project, or what you’re looking for, and let them guide you to the right product. Many times they have ideas to make my project even better! Same holds true for furniture stores and many home décor shops.
  • Create a mood board. If you’re redecorating a room, I really encourage you to use a mood board. I explain it in more detail in the Room Makeover Planner, but essentially it’s collecting the colors, finishes and fabrics you have or want in the room—or even just inspiration photos—onto a sheet of paper or a file folder. Pinterest is like a giant mood board; create a separate board just for the room you’re working on and pin the exact items you’re considering. Here’s an example of my board when I putting together my outdoor office. When I do room consultations, I create mood boards so the client can see the vision for the room. Then, when you’re out shopping and you’re not sure about something, simply pause, take a breath and look at the mood board. It’s a compass in the sea of retail confusion.

 

#2 It’s OK to make mistakes!

Even if you follow all the tips in #1, there will be times that you take something home, or it’s delivered from an online shop, and you think, “Ewww! I don’t know about this!” Maybe the color looks completely different in your home, or it’s too big or too small for the space.

It happens all the time, yet I’m amazed at how afraid we are to make such mistakes.

It doesn’t mean you don’t know what you’re doing or what you like, it simply means that piece isn’t right for your house. Return the item, or if it’s a final sale, donate it to a local charity or sell it online.

Do not feel like you have to live with it or stash it in the garage. It will forever be chanting to you, “You made a mistake!” and who needs that kind of energy?
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#3 Plans change. Go with it!

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been in the middle of a project, either for myself or a client, when out of the blue an idea hits me. Totally not something on “the plan” but brilliant just the same. It’s important not to hold too tightly to a plan, a direction, or even a specific item.

For example, in the mood board shown above, I originally had planned to use three tiebacks from Anthropologie, priced at about $32 each to hang a fabric canopy over the headboard. But when I went to purchase them, I discovered they were an online item not available in stores. No worries! I used an $8 pack of clear Command brand adhesive hooks and saved the client some money.

When inspiration strikes, follow it. If the change helps to create a room you love without sacrificing the overall vision, embrace it.

I love supporting my clients to make their houses into homes, and I love learning from each and every one of them!

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Avoid DIY Decorating Overwhelm with these 3 tips

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Celebrate St. Patrick’s Day with History, Home and the Best Irish Icing Ever!

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Celebrate the start of springtime, the Irish in all of us and the color of the year all in one month!

 

March Madness may be about basketball for some, but for me, it’s about color and new beginnings and lots of good food and fun.
 

Here are my three favorite St. Patrick’s Day highlights for the history geek, the home decorator and the cook.
 

A Wee Bit of Irish History

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Learn about the legend and lore of St. Patrick, how the City of Chicago uses 45 pounds of vegetable dye to go green for St. Pat’s Day, and some key Gaelic phrases to back up that “Kiss Me, I’m Irish” button.

 

Bring the Outside In: 7 Easy Ways to Go Green at Home

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Find out why green is one of the best colors to bring into your home, and 7 easy and inexpensive ways to take advantage of this multifaceted color, not just at St. Pat’s Day but the whole year through.

 

Spiked and Spiced: The Best St. Patrick’s Day Cupcakes

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Dig in to these delectable homemade cupcakes made with stout beer, or a cake mix version with added punch and spice. Both are topped with a scrumptious booze-laced icing that will make sure those Irish eyes are smiling!

(Shamrocks photo credit: © Swapan – Fotolia.com)

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How to Create a Spa Bathroom

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Sunday nights are for relaxing. (At least I think they should be!) What’s better than retiring to your own spa oasis, having a nice long soak in luxurious bubbles, and just enjoying the moment?

If we follow our 5 senses, putting together a pretty good facsimile of a spa experience is quite doable. Here’s a video explaining it all, and I’ve put some notes and resources below the jump. Or, if you’d like the thumbnail, here’s an infographic/cheatsheet.

1. SIGHT

Two major themes here: decluttering the vanity surfaces, and creating a soothing color scheme.

When it comes to beauty “stuff” — all of our lotions and  potions — I get it. There can be a lot. And if your bathroom is on the small side, storage can be an issue. If your beauty care items have a home, put them back when you use them. That one simple act alone can make a huge difference in reducing visual clutter.

If you find you have a lot of things you use daily that don’t have a permanent residence in your bathroom, get creative with storage. There are a lot of inexpensive but stylish ideas out there. Here are 10 organizing ideas under $10 each.

Next, let’s talk about color. Think about your favorite spa. What colors did you see there? Chances are, the color scheme was designed to inspire a sense of calm. That usually means a monochromatic (one color) scheme in neutrals (white all the way up to taupe) or blues and greens. (For tips on how color affects the human mind and body, check out this infographic.) A monochromatic scheme is less stressful because the brain has less to process, fewer contrasting colors to process.

Whatever your color of choice, bring it in with paint on the walls, the shower curtain, window coverings, rugs, and of course towels. Here’s how I turned my guest bathroom into a more spa-like space for under $100.

2. TOUCH

Here’s a designer tip: whenever you’re using a monochromatic color scheme, your room needs varying textures to keep the design from being bland and boring.

In your spa bathroom, bring in texture through soft, luxurious towels. Buy the best you can afford, start with just a few pieces and build up your inventory if you have to. Because I see good towels as an investment, I want to know how they’ll perform before I plunk down my money, so I purchase a wash cloth from each brand I’m considering and I use them. Really use them and wash them a few times to see how they do. Then I can purchase more pieces of what I want.

Other ways to bring in different textures: the shower curtain; a soft looped cotton rug underfoot or a gel mat by the tub; floral arrangements; a loofah scrubber or mitts; a natural sea sponge; and/or a luxurious robe. (Seriously, isn’t that the best part of some spa treatments?)

A more ethereal texture: bath products. Yes! The silkiness of bath oil, whipped body butters and bubble bath all count towards the sense of touch. They also bridge the way to the next sense …

3. SCENT

(I think I said “smell” in the video, but “scent” sounds nicer.) Of course here is where the core of many spa experiences is found. I love going to my local Aveda spa where they give you a choice of aromas to incorporate into your treatment. So pick up a few of these elements in a variety of scents to cover an array of sensory needs from de-stressing to energizing.

  • Scented candles
  • Reed diffuser
  • Bath products
  • Essential oils

Here’s a quick aromatherapy tutorial to help you decide on your perfect scents.

4. SOUND

One year for my birthday I treated myself to the spa at one of the big-name casinos here in Las Vegas that had great reviews online. I was already familiar with other spas in their chain so I had every expectation it would be a great experience. Wow was I under-impressed with the sound environment! I could hear jackhammers, cars, and every other treatment going on since the walls didn’t go all the way up to the ceiling! It was totally distracting.

That’s when I realized the power of sound to transport us to that sacred zen place of bliss. Don’t skimp on this sense! Bring in a CD player, your smartphone or tablet (be sure not to get anything too close to the tub!) and play soothing music. Put together your own playlist, pick up a compilation CD (I always find them at Target), or listening to one of the spa/relaxation stations on your streaming music service.

5. TASTE

The final spa element that you can replicate at home is taste. Spas are famous for their flavored detox waters and teas. Make yourself a pitcher of flavored water. Simply slice up some fruit of your choice, add some herbs if you like and place it all in a pitcher with some good, pure water. Chill for at least 1-2 hours to let the flavors infuse. Some traditional combos: cucumber-mint; lemon-mint; and blackberry-apple. Of course there are no rules here — use what you like best!

In a pinch, pick up one of the naturally flavored waters widely available at supermarkets. Make sure there is no added sugar.

So there you have it! The 5 easy steps to make a spa at home. I’d love to hear how you’re incorporating these elements and senses into your spa night routine. Please leave a comment over on the Facebook page and be sure to follow my master bathroom board on Pinterest.

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7 Ways to Refresh a Room in 15 Minutes or Less

Time is relative. Fifteen minutes may seem like an eternity if you’re stuck in traffic and late for work. Or, it may seem like the blink of an eye when you’re in the zone working on a project.  It’s the same quantity of time, and it will pass whether we are sitting still or moving fast.

When decorating your home, you can make an enormous difference in a room just 15 minutes at a time. So without further ado, here are 7 ways that you can start to refresh your entire home. Simply set a timer and work for 15 minutes. You might be amazed at what you can do.

Who says there’s no time to decorate?

 

1. Clear some clutter

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Sometimes refreshing a room is like the old adage, “you can’t see the forest for the trees.” Meaning, there’s just too much stuff in the way of seeing the room and its features and furnishings.

I’m not saying you’re going to completely de-clutter and organize your entire house in 15 minutes. But what can you do? Maybe it’s just cleaning off the kitchen table or the counter. The room will look and feel better instantly!

Nearly every decorating plan starts with cleaning and decluttering—removing anything that is not used frequently, belongs somewhere else, or gets in the way of the room’s purpose. Examples might include shoes, toys, magazines, papers, clothes, dishes and glasses, or even furniture.

Look at your room with an objective eye. What really doesn’t belong there? Unless you belong on a show about hoarding, chances are if you slow down and look at the room from a new, fresh perspective, you’ll see lots of items that can be removed.

When in doubt, ask a neighbor or friend what they see as clutter in your room. (Or try my Clutter Clearing and Organizing audio course.) There’s a great Polish proverb, “A guest sees more in an hour than a host in a year.” Sometimes we just get comfortable with all the stuff. Pare it down and let the room breathe.

 

2. Let there be light

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Light is one of the most overlooked elements of interior design, and yet it’s one of the easiest to acquire and manipulate.

Light makes a room feel larger, brighter and fresher, so take some time to assess the lighting situation in your room. If the room has a window, wash it inside and out to let in more sunshine. Open any shades or blinds during the day to maximize natural light. If there are window treatments, are they too heavy, dark, or outdated for the room? Just taking down drapes—even if you don’t have anything to replace them with just yet—can have a dramatic impact on a room.

Then look at the light fixtures and lamps in the room. Is there enough light to move around the room at night, or if there are no windows? If not, add more lamps to the mix. Check the maximum wattage stated on each fixture and lamp, and install higher wattage bulbs to bring in more light.

 

3. Rearrange the furniture

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Arranging furniture in a room is a lot like a puzzle. And once we think we have it figured out, we keep it that way. For years. (I’ve certainly been guilty of this!)

But what if there was a different way? Switching up the furniture arrangement can shift the feeling of a room in an instant.

Before you start moving anything, play with the arrangement on paper. Create a scale drawing of your room on a piece of graph paper, measuring the walls and noting any doorways and windows. Then measure and draw shapes to represent the furniture pieces and place them on the room drawing, playing with different layouts until you find one that feels right. Pay attention to traffic patterns and how the room is used, and try to create “zones” for each use. I’ve created a design tool that makes it super easy to try this designer trick. You can get it FREE here.

And, it may be that the current arrangement is the best for the room, and that’s great! At least you’ve looked at other options.

 

4. Get your group on

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Have you noticed most of these tips so far have been fast and free? #4 follows that lead with a “use what you have” approach to accessorizing your room.

Shop your house for accessories—objects, candleholders, vases, picture frames, figurines—that have a common, unifying theme or motif. Maybe they’re all red, or they’re all ducks or apples or sailboats. Chances are there’s a collection of something hiding in plain sight around your home. Bring everything together and display items together on an end table, dresser, sideboard, console.

Displaying similar items together gives them more presence and makes the room more personal. Visually link smaller items together by placing them on a tray. This is a heart display I put together for Valentine’s Day a few years ago.

 

5. Update with textiles

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One of the easiest and fastest ways to change the entire look and feel of a room is with fabrics.

Look around your room. What fabric elements could be changed, either by bringing in something new or swapping them with something from another room? Think about:

  • Drapes
  • Area rugs
  • Toss pillows
  • Slipcovers
  • Throws
  • Table coverings
  • Shower curtain
  • Towels

As a bonus, updating the textiles also means bringing in new (or more) color, texture, and/or pattern.

 

6. Add life … literally

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Live, leafy green and/or blooming houseplants (not silk plants or cacti) are great additions to nearly any room. Their green color is automatically calming to the eye, and they produce oxygen. Plus, they are relatively inexpensive and can easily fill a large area—like an empty corner— if need be. Or, opt for one or two smaller plants placed around the room. If you don’t have much of a green thumb, ask your florist to suggest a hearty variety, or add a self-watering tube like an Aquaglobe®.

Fresh cut flowers are also a great decorating secret. Their color, life, texture and fragrance can be elegant or fun, indulgent or whimsical. And with most supermarkets now selling flowers, they’re convenient, too!

To get the most from supermarket bouquet, be sure to re-cut the stems when you get home and make sure the vase is scrupulously clean to prevent bacteria from killing the blooms prematurely. If it’s a mixed bouquet, consider making smaller arrangements and tuck them all over the house, in the bedroom, bath and kitchen for example.

 

7. Alter the art

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Art can set a mood, reinforce a theme, or be just plain wonderful to behold. Like light, art is often an afterthought in a room’s design plan, but it deserves much more attention.

Art is also fairly easy to swap from room to room and season to season. Think of your rooms like a gallery with an ever-changing collection. Look around your room. Does it currently have or need some art? Is there a focal point piece, for example over the bed or fireplace? If so, is there another piece in the house that could be traded out to give the room a fresh look?

Anyone who’s followed this blog knows that at holiday time, I love to change up the art all over the house. Here’s a quick and easy seasonal tip: Use the same frame and mat, but swap out the image. I’ve gotten a lot of mileage from some simple silver frames in the guest bath, with a rotating display of everything from calendar pages to greeting cards and trip photos to scrapbook paper.

Children’s art is also a great addition to any room, and can be updated as the child creates new masterpieces. Nearly anything can be art!

A few tips about displaying art:

  • Be sure to hang it at eye level. Not too high and not too low, although most folks hang their pictures much too high. Look at magazines and home catalogs to get a feel for placement.
  • If there’s any doubt about how high to hang something, make a template of the art piece with some newspaper or kraft paper and tape it to the wall, then stand back. How does it look and feel in comparison to what you’ve seen in magazines or on design shows?
  • As a general rule of thumb, the top of the frame should be no more than 6 ft. from the ground.
  • Or, hang up on hanging art and use a gallery ledge instead. By far the easiest way to swap and rotate your favorite works of art.

What’s your favorite 15 minute life or design hack? Share your comments and stories on the Facebook page!

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Nature-Inspired Color Schemes

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Sometimes the inspiration for a color scheme is just outside the door. Mother Nature has a way of knowing what colors just work together, doesn’t she?

Recently I had the chance to visit the botanical gardens at the Kaua’i Marriott Resort at Kalapaki Bay on Kauai, Hawaii. The gardens are the largest on the island and include a massive koi pond—also the largest on Kauai. In between rain showers I wandered along its paths and although not everything was in bloom (I missed the fragrant tirare flowers by a few days) I was stuck by the vivid hot pink and green color scheme of many of the flowers and plants.

From a tropical variety of geranium (top left) to the fuchsia-into-purple leaves of the ti plant (bottom right), the vibrant color is set off by lush greens. A pink ornamental banana plant (top right) offered a change from the usual yellow variety. An interesting variegated leafy plant (whose name was not identified, lower left) showed that pink and green are a natural and effortless combination.

I could see this combination in a fun powder room or a teen girl’s bedroom. Mixed with warm gold and black accents, it could also be the basis of an eclectic living room!

 

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As I was leaving the gardens, I had to stop and marvel at the variety of color in the koi pond, from creamy ivory to golden yellow and striking fiery orange, all set on a backdrop of deep blue. It’s a very rich palette, perfect for an elegant dining room or even a bedroom as it combines the calming qualities of blue with the cheeriness of orange.

So the next time you’re stuck on a color scheme for your home, get out of the house and see what nature might inspire in you!

 

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